Dial in the year 2013, filled with so many downs and when my life came to what I thought was a standstill. After 5 years of celebrating a career high note – successfully being the tri-states only all female sex-positive and relationships events company, having the perfect apartment, relationship getting more exploratory along came a…
Category: Consciouness
He Said, “She Doesn’t Have To Be Conscious, She Just Has To Be For Me”
I love you men, all the variations and obscure things that make each and every one of you to be the unique version of yourselves. Every once in a while I have a conversation that makes me sit back afterwards and think about the implications of the things that you say 🤔. So today I…
Finding Major Success In Small Achievements
So I know your all wondering where I’ve been the last couple of months. Honestly if your mad I don’t blame you. But some of the most amazing things have happened to me the last few weeks and I just had to share them with you. It made me realize how important the small things are,…
Is Your Circle Encouraging Or Killing Your Succes
“Birds Of A Feather, Flock Together”. An idiom we  have all learnt & grew up on”in English, French, German,Cantonese et al”.  Whether or not if it’s a fact.. I will leave that up to you to decide upon. But having the right and wrong people in our social circles can determine a great much on how…
How And Why A Man Should Pursue You
I don’t want anyone to think that there’s anything wrong with being pursued and a woman having standards, and holding her space as Queen for her King. A man should prove he has worth and is worth her space and time. Male energy is active while feminine energy is outside of resting. Men whom are…
How “Vulnerability” Keeps Black People From Unity
How is it we seem to sabotage our own progress at unification? Can we find common ground to move forward as a community? Find out how…
I Need A Sister Wife…
I am a proud child of sister wives, in fact it is something that I desire for my life as well. Without both of these women present in my life I couldn’t say I am who I am presently.
Deelishis And Bro Polight Talk: Girl You Bombed That!
Hip Hop Enquirer posted a video of Brother Polight speaking with Deelishis (reality TV star). Now initially when I first came across the video I was honestly surprised and a bit impressed with Deelishis, I assumed that with the caliber of man she was speaking with that she actually had much more substance that I assumed.
Would A Sex Strike Like In ‘Chi Raq’ Actually Work?
Using a sex strike as a way to end the violence in Chicago?? How can Spike Lee make such a mockery of the issue in our city?!” This sentiment has reverberated through the proverbial halls of social media over and over since Spike released the trailer for his latest project, Chi-Raq (coming tomorrow). For those…
Netflix And Chill: You Can Miss Me With That
I remember the first time someone attempted to turn me into a booty call. I was 19, took the semester off from college for the summer and looking to have a bit of fun. My friends and I would go to the waterfront, and towards the end of the summer, we randomly met these guys…
Dating In The Conscious Community: Conscious Dating
Since we’ve already discussed the types of people (generally) that you’ll encounter. Let’s continue on to things you’ll need to consider before you begin dating. To gain the best possible experience dating in the conscious community, lets first looks at ourselves. My beloved sister, no matter where you are in the world or what you’ve…
He Said, “Sex Predates Love”; Let Me Explain That
My view on sexuality is defined by my self awareness, my personal consciousness. How I view the world and see myself in it. Like exploratory surgery, my desires are to find new and inventive was to please my partner, physically and spiritually, to envelope myself in his energy and take a command only if momentarily, of all* his senses.
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