I love you men, all the variations and obscure things that make each and every one of you to be the unique version of yourselves. Every once in a while I have a conversation that makes me sit back afterwards and think about the implications of the things that you say 🤔. So today I…
Category: Sexuality
Conscious Men Are As Rare As An Endangered Species
Ideally I’d want to spend the rest of my life with a man as dark as the furthest reaches of space. His teeth would gleam and the whites of his eyes would be like snow. His body a canvas of his ancestry. Preferably a man older and wiser, someone who can teach me a thing…
Deelishis And Bro Polight Talk: Girl You Bombed That!
Hip Hop Enquirer posted a video of Brother Polight speaking with Deelishis (reality TV star). Now initially when I first came across the video I was honestly surprised and a bit impressed with Deelishis, I assumed that with the caliber of man she was speaking with that she actually had much more substance that I assumed.
Would A Sex Strike Like In ‘Chi Raq’ Actually Work?
Using a sex strike as a way to end the violence in Chicago?? How can Spike Lee make such a mockery of the issue in our city?!” This sentiment has reverberated through the proverbial halls of social media over and over since Spike released the trailer for his latest project, Chi-Raq (coming tomorrow). For those…
Netflix And Chill: You Can Miss Me With That
I remember the first time someone attempted to turn me into a booty call. I was 19, took the semester off from college for the summer and looking to have a bit of fun. My friends and I would go to the waterfront, and towards the end of the summer, we randomly met these guys…
Dating In The Conscious Community: Conscious Dating
Since we’ve already discussed the types of people (generally) that you’ll encounter. Let’s continue on to things you’ll need to consider before you begin dating. To gain the best possible experience dating in the conscious community, lets first looks at ourselves. My beloved sister, no matter where you are in the world or what you’ve…
What Type Of Conscious Person Are You Dating?
Although I haven’t been dating in the conscious community for long I have seen and heard many stories. For better and for worse, I’d like to share with you my personal experiences of what it’s like and what to expect! In this post I’ll try to first break down people you’ll interact with by gender…
How To Know You’re Not In Love Anymore: 10 Signs
While the feelings of falling in love are blissful and intense, the feelings of falling out of love could be just as intense. Despite the signs of falling out of love might not be clear as they are at the beginning, there are still some signals that warn you about the status of your relationship.
Conscious Girl…..Got Daddy Issues
In this post, I want to reveal to you how unresolved daddy issues can play a big part in your relationship with men. If you are wondering why you attract men who are abusive toward you, men who drink and smoke, men who are emotional unavailable for love and men who seem to abandon you…
He Said, “Sex Predates Love”; Let Me Explain That
My view on sexuality is defined by my self awareness, my personal consciousness. How I view the world and see myself in it. Like exploratory surgery, my desires are to find new and inventive was to please my partner, physically and spiritually, to envelope myself in his energy and take a command only if momentarily, of all* his senses.
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